In this video, Coach Court discusses an email he received that lead him to share these 10 tips. For those in relationships or marriages with avoidants, these tips can really help to explain a bit where the avoidants may be coming from as well as help ease or limit some anxieties.
In this short, Coach Court talks about the power struggle stage and how an avoidant and an anxious person can react. He also gives an example on what to say from each perspective, when such feelings arise.
hi let me turn my my speaker down it's nice to meet youcan you hear me yeah where are you from California California like 30 minutes from San Francisco okayhow'd you find myself yeah how did I find it um just trying just looking looking at trying to just know more about avoidance and I learned about attachment Styles and I just wanted to um you kind of came up on the feed and um I like your energy and I like how your your approach and I just like that you're very um straightforward and the things that I've learned from your channel I've implemented and have worked okay um however um you know I I'm still anxious anxious...
