In this short, Coach Court talks about the power struggle stage and how an avoidant and an anxious person can react. He also gives an example on what to say from each perspective, when such feelings arise.
In this short, Coach Court reads a comment from a couple years ago that created quite the discussion on his YouTube channel. He discusses why anxious attachers might want their dismissive exes back and that it's not their fault, consciously.
In this video, Coach Court chats live with a guest who identifies as being a dismissive avoidant. They talk through her childhood and her previous relationships. The conversation closes with some very insightful retrospective from the guest that just may help others. The conversation is candid, thoughtful and honest.
In this video, Coach Court starts off humbly apologizing for past advice. He then goes into detail to discuss why dismissive avoidants are able to attract partners, but can't keep them.
In this video, Coach Court walks thru his own experience starting out as an anxious attacher, how that transitioned to fearful avoidant tendencies and how he ended up as a mostly secure attacher, now. He discusses his educational journey and how that lead him to coaching. He also walks thru his healing process, the steps he started on back then and what he still does today.
