A narcissist would LOVE for you to believe that they have an insecure attachment. That would be an absolute dream for them to hide behind the cloak of an attachment wound. In their mind, they're thinking: “You mean to tell me, I can do whatever I want, never be pressured for commitment and get to use stonewalling when I don't feel like talking, and you'll never question it? Somebody pinch me, because I'm about to confuse a lot of people. What's this called again? This dysregulated disorganized attachment? Yeah, sign me up for that. I think I have that.”