Be careful telling the wrong person about the abuse that you experienced in those past relationships can actually be teaching them how to treat you. One of the things that I don't see a lot of coaches talking about is when to disclose certain types of information during the dating and the courtship process. You don't want to tell the wrong person too soon about the things that you've experienced in the past, because those people can actually use that information and know exactly how to manipulate and move in the relationship with you. Now I know part of the process of getting to know someone is talking about the things that you've experienced in the past, understanding how they got to where they're at today, but you don't have to give everything away within the first couple weeks and you definitely don't want to be trauma dumping within that first month of meeting someone. So be open, be communicative, but be wise about what you disclose.
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