Closure is a complex experience, and 95% of the time it'll be a personal journey, not something external. If your closure requires for your ex to take accountability, validate your experiences or have that extra conversation? Then you're not actually looking for closure, what you're looking for is hope. Hope that they will give you their time and attention again. Hope that they made a big mistake and want you back, but the only way to find true closure is to accept things for exactly the way that they are. Accept the person for what their action shows you and not the words that were coming out of their mouth. I want you to ask yourself these questions: Did your core values align? Did the relationship simply run its course? Were you intentionally or unintentionally love bombed? These are just some of the ingredients you'll need in order to find true closure.
Finding Closure after a BREAKUP